"Dedicated to Quarterlife Crisis"

"Dedicated to Women who expereince Quarterlife Crisis, Approval Addiction and Low Self-Esteem"


“You did what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better.” -Maya Angelou


"Dr. White is a Quarterlife Crisis Survivor"



Quick Start Guide


Hello Friend,

Congratulations on taking your first step. By deciding there is a goal that you want to achieve you have already taken that very important step.

I’m glad you’ve chosen to invest your time in reading and working through this coaching guide. It was designed to help you to partner with God and design your life around what is important to you. This is just one of many steps designed to draw you into your destiny. The next stage of your journey starts now.

My mission in life is to spread self awareness knowledge to as many people as possible.

That’s me in the photo below. I have spent this year searching for the best things to share with you that I thought could help bring you the most awareness. Much love and heart has been poured into this site, and I hope you’ll find something here that’ll makes your heart sing, brightens up your day, or helped you with a problem.

I created this site in intention to share my personal journey many of you know I am a survivor of my very own Quarterlife Crisis, Approval Addiction and Low Self Esteem and I wanted to share some things I’ve learned about various topics pertaining to reclaiming your life after being lost, confused and lacking direction in life — we all seek fulfillment, empowerment, relationships, creativity, and want to overcome ours fears — and ultimately how to reclaim our life.

My goal is to create a warm and loving space where we can reflect on our own lives through what I learned by counseling other people and my own personal story, and to find inspiration to be happy again.

Hope you find something here that speaks to you, and that your life shines a little brighter because of it. If you’re new, make sure you start at January post and work your way down to our current post and read our motivational quotes down the side of the page.

Welcome to our awareness sessions. Take whatever you need and leave the rest behind.

Love and Blessing

Dr. Nikki LeToya White



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To obtain the most awareness from this blog start with January post and work your way down to December. May your spirit find the information it’s seeks. God Bless you!!!!

















































































































































































































































































































































Tuesday, March 27, 2012

What Is An Affirmation?

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Dear Friend,

Many people have heard of the word affirmation but few know what they really are or even more importantly how to do them. Affirmations are positive phrases that can be said to oneself to promote a certain thought process or positive self image. An example of an affirmation is


* I am safe


another example might be


* I am confident
Affirmations seem to work best when


1. The phrase is in the positive. "I am safe" rather than "My husband won't hurt me anymore".
When the positive phrases start with "I am", "I will", "I love" I’m in the process of, or "I have".


2. People use affirmations for all types of things:
-increase health or eliminate sickness
-increase wealth, abundance or prosperity
-realize a specific goal (ie. finding a home)
-improve one's self image
-promote a new thought pattern
-promote a peaceful life
-promote a more dynamic spiritual life

The list is really endless...

If you want to improve you life you must first improve your thoughts. Have you ever heard someone say you can change your life overnight? Well, this is partly true you can change aspect of your life overnight although it all starts with renewing of your mind.

Or, in other words stop thinking negative thoughts- start thinking positive thoughts and no self criticism. Do all the things you love to do and try your best to stay as peaceful and happy as you can in this negative world?

Your thoughts are only part of the change your mood is the key. If you can keep your mood level focus on a higher vibrational frequency you will attract whatever you desire in your life. That’s mean you must start today working on stable emotions.

Do not be so quick to angry
Do not be so quick to be influenced by other people opinions
Do not live your life by other people expectations

Start living by your own desires.
Do what feels good and right for you.
Then and only then will you aligned with your desire.


Always remember my friend God helps people who keep a good attitude in challenging times. My message in this letter is for you to determine to keep a good, positive, and thankful attitude!

Until Next time my friend!!!

Love and Blessing

Your Friend,

LeToya

LeToya White is the founder of The Light of Day, INC. a research center that develops personal development and life tools that help people overcome the adversity of life. If you have moved to a new city…don't know many people, don’t have any friends, are stuck in a rut, feel trapped, performance is trending low, lost your drive for life, or have insecurities please feel free to contact me at lightofdayinc@yahoo.com for a free consultation.

Things to think about, Life will always have challenges just remember this too shall pass. Your ultimate goals and objectives you have set out for your life resolves around your fears, anxiety or low self-confidence. Do you have a sense for which one of these may be causing the hiccups you mention? If so you have the first step to getting out of your rut.

Many of my clients respond to their problem with this statement, “Every time I say to myself I need to make a change, it always backfires and I end up going one step forward, 500 steps back.”

Do you feel this way, if so you are not alone!

The truth is when you get the feelings that your goals are impossible to reach, do you believe it has to do with the goals you have selected or with uncertainties/fears/negative challenges that impact your belief that you will get there?

When this happens you need to try harder to put yourself in situations that will create opportunity of change. Not only will doing something for change and the enjoyment of it help get out of your mental rut; it will give you a new opportunity to form relationships and friends… breaking down your fear boosting self confidence are all supported by the willingness to change.

I look forward from hearing from you!!!

Love and Blessing LeToya

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