Dear Friend,Today I want you to pay attention to your thoughts. The human mind is curious as soon as something of concern is introduced to us without enough information we tend to fill the gaps by creating new beliefs.
Our thoughts create our world, in some way. Any thought you have will also take shape, because you can create just like I can. There was a time when you were just like me. Maybe that time is now, but if you were anything like I was, you would not be able to experience life.
I used to live in a world filled with fear of the unknown, without the confidence that I would always be in the right place at the right time if I dared to put my trust in life. Then I learned to overcome my fears and rebuild my confidence. Self-confidence is the belief that you can handle a certain situation correctly. Self-confidence is knowing that you don't lack any of the necessary skills in order to successfully complete a task.
Without confidence you will surely miss a lot of available opportunities because you will be afraid to take the risk of trying something that you aren't sure you can handle. I lack this belief for a long time within my life.
But you my friend…
Are what you choose to be, I had to learn lessons the hard way. I had to come to peace with life realities. We must all know what evil, pain, and struggle is in order to know who you are. You could be more confident through the total elimination of the dependency upon the opinion of others. This is because if you don't really have a solid knowledge of your abilities and of who you are then you will most likely be depending on others to tell you who you are.
This world is a duality of opposites. A higher spirit created everything in twos, so we could choose and experience who you want to be. The key to life is to take chare and manage yourself and never forget who you are. You are an unlimited spiritual begins. You are connected with a higher power for as long as you choose to be.
"Ask in you are given to you, seek, and you will find; knock and it will be opened to you."
-Matthew 7:7
All you have to do is use your greatest gift, Free Will. Free Will- will help you to create whoever you choose to be. My message in this letter is for you to pay attention to your thoughts and learn how to be the creator of the inner life.
One of the main reasons limiting beliefs are created is the lack of knowledge. To overcome limiting beliefs first you need to take control of your mind way of thinking. In addition you must learn how to not fill any gaps without first acquiring sufficient knowledge. Instead of getting advice from other people that is lacking in the same knowledge you must learn how to educate yourself and to read about whatever concerns you so that you prevent limiting beliefs that result from lack of knowledge from being created.
Real Talk: Life will tempt you and whisper sweet words into your ear. For that is who she is. It is her job to test you because she is building your character. Ego and personality is the grounds for life to test your character. in order to rebuild your confidence you must think differently, self confidence is all about knowing that you are worthy then considering those who believe otherwise to be people who lack the ability to judge others.
The key is to know who you are and know who you are not. I can not tell you which to be. This is your choice. You will create but also you will also lose and experience the greatest pleasure and the most profound happiness.
So as to let you experience life is a choice you have to make for yourself, only remember a visible expression of your thoughts.
Love and Blessing
Your Friend,
LeToya
LeToya White is the founder of The Light of Day, INC. a research center that develops personal development and life tools that help people overcome the adversity of life. If you have moved to a new city…don't know many people, don’t have any friends, are stuck in a rut, feel trapped, performance is trending low, lost your drive for life, or have insecurities please feel free to contact her at lightofdayinc@yahoo.com for a free consultation.
Things to think about...
Life will always have challenges just remember this too shall pass. Your ultimate goals and objectives you have set out for your life resolves around your fears, anxiety or low self-confidence. Do you have a sense for which one of these may be causing the hiccups you mention?
If so you have the first step to getting out of your rut.
Many of my clients respond to their problem with this statement, “Every time I say to myself I need to make a change, it always backfires and I end up going one step forward, 500 steps back.”
Do you feel this way, if so you are not alone!
The truth is when you get the feelings that your goals are impossible to reach, do you believe it has to do with the goals you have selected or with uncertainties/fears/negative challenges that impact your belief that you will get there?
When this happens you need to try harder to put yourself in situations that will create opportunity of change. Not only will doing something for change and the enjoyment of it will help get you out of your mental rut; it will give you a new opportunity to form relationships and friends… breaking down your fear boosting self confidence are all supported by the willingness to change.
I look forward from hearing from you!!!
Love and Blessing
LeToya
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