Choices - How To Choose To Create The Life That's Right For You Part 3 of 4 Articles

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Dear Friend

Once you have gotten rid of all of the negative out of your life you must begin to learn how to make the best choice for your new life you wish to create. For many people this idea sound far fetch, but it can be done. I did it!  You can create the life that you want to have. It's just a matter of consistently making choices that will take you closer to your ideal life.

You create yourself, moment by moment, day by day, experience by experience, and become the person you want to become by each choice you say yes or no to. If you decide to move from your small town to a big city this is creating a new life. If you decide to write a song and sing on open mic night you are creating your life. You never know who is in the audience seeking new talent.

That’s why each choice you make should be align with what you what to experience. Though often it may not feel like it, you have the choice in how you react to situations. You have the choice in what you do with your time. You have the choice in how creative you want to be. You have the choice in the person you want to be.

It's never too late to Reclaim Your Life.

All is required is the perfect choice that fits your ideal life.

Now make 3 choices that align with the life you want to create at this present moment.

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Example,

1. Instead of feeling I have no time to create new friendship in my life, I will start eating out one day a week in a public setting.

 2. I'm going to start spending a minimum amount of time every weekend attending classes, seminars or workshops to meet like minded people.

3. I will also attend a support group or book club to create a new social life.

The final step is where you're going to put your words into action. Pick one of the 3 steps you've written, and commit to taking it. Today. Right now.

 I hope this helps,

Till next time my friend

Love and Blessing

LeToya

LeToya White is the founder of The Light of Day, INC. a research center that develops personal development and life tools that help people overcome the adversity of life. If you have moved to a new city…don't know many people, don’t have any friends, are stuck in a rut, feel trapped, performance is trending low, lost your drive for life, or have insecurities please feel free to contact me at lightofdayinc@yahoo.com for a free consultation or visit www.lightofdayinc.com.

 Things to think about, Life will always have challenges just remember this too shall pass. Your ultimate goals and objectives you have set out for your life resolves around your fears, anxiety or low self-confidence. Do you have a sense for which one of these may be causing the hiccups you mention? If so you have the first step to getting out of your rut.

Many of my clients respond to their problem with this statement, “Every time I say to myself I need to make a change, it always backfires and I end up going one step forward, 500 steps back.”

Do you feel this way, if so you are not alone!

The truth is when you get the feelings that your goals are impossible to reach, do you believe it has to do with the goals you have selected or with uncertainties/fears/negative challenges that impact your belief that you will get there?

When this happens you need to try harder to put yourself in situations that will create opportunity of change. Not only will doing something for change and the enjoyment of it help get out of your mental rut; it will give you a new opportunity to form relationships and friends… breaking down your fear boosting self confidence are all supported by the willingness to change.

I look forward from hearing from you!!!

Love and Blessing

LeToya